Imagine if you will a young, healthy baby. The baby is growing fast, and will soon be standing up, walking and talking. And as they do, they will learn to eat on their own, play with others, eventually go to school, make new friends, and later still, drive a car, graduate, and move towards adulthood.
All of those markers help us judge the progress of a person. Certainly, other markers exist, but those are a few of the major milestones that most people go through over the course of their first 18-20 years.
But during all of that, even more is happening on the inside. And, it is what is on the inside that really makes the person. Hormones, chemicals, and growth spurts are all part of the challenge of navigating the early years of our lives. But most people focus on the outside.
For instance, people will talk about which family member we resemble. As teenagers, many people first deal with acne and face the challenge of wondering whether people will like us or not. Therefore, while it is true that we cannot judge a book by its cover, the question must be asked, “Why do we choose that approach so often?”
This month’s system is the exocrine system. The exocrine system includes the largest organ in the body which is the skin. It is what we see. Of ourselves and of others. The difference is that we often have some idea of what is going on within our own bodies, but we need others to tell us how they are feeling. And the inverse is true as well…we must tell others how we are feeling for them to know.
Why is this important? Because what is presented on the outside can mask what is happening on the inside – at least for a while. But eventually if we are rotten on the inside, we will turn rotten on the outside. But if we are clean on the inside, then we should present ourselves as clean on the outside.
The truth is that we may be able to hide our true self from others for a while, but eventually the truth is revealed. And while we may be able to hide who we are from others, we cannot hide who we are from God.
And so, as we consider what it means to live as Christians, we must begin with an understanding that it is not what we call ourselves that matters, it is what we are doing. That is, many people have called themselves Christians over the years (and may even today), but the term is not what is important. Jesus did not say, “Call yourself a Christian.” He said, “Follow me.” And our willingness to follow Him is what marks us as one who is truly a Christian.
This week and next we are going to review a couple of verses you have seen recently in the Sunday School lessons from Ephesians. Then on December 1, we will move to John 1 for one week. All along we are going to use Jesus statement in Matthew 4.19 to show a progression of what Jesus has promised to do within us, as we consider our role in that process as well.
This week, we start with Ephesians 4.1 and the command that we are to walk according to our calling. The idea here is that the people of Ephesus need to learn how to walk in a new way. Later in the chapter, the reference is to the old man and new man (which are corporate terms in this instance), so they not only need to learn how to walk as a new believer, they also need to learn to walk with other believers (as those believers also learn to walk).
Why? Because the Christian life is different. Many people think of Christians as living by a rigid set of guidelines. That is, Christians can’t do this and can’t do that. Romans 14 speaks to this issue very well, and ultimately provides a lot of freedom providing two things are true.
- We are following Christ.
- We do not cause a brother to stumble.
It is important to note that we can follow Christ and still cause a fellow believer to stumble. One example from Scripture relates to eating meat, particularly meat that had been sacrificed to idols (see 1 Corinthians 9, c.f. Romans 14). In our day the same might be true, but perhaps a better example could be the type of entertainment we watch.
Whatever the issue, Paul says the new believers need to learn to walk in a manner worthy of their calling. He then provides many ideas for what that means over the rest of the letter. As I have said before, Ephesians can be split into two main chunks. Ephesians 1-3 is about who God is and what He has done, and chapters 4-6 is how we should live because of it.
And thus, we are not to walk according to our own purposes. Paul begins with the word therefore, showing He has provided an argument prior to this point and is now making a statement based upon what has already been stated. And the statement Paul made was for them to learn to walk differently.
Like a newborn child who learns to crawl, walking is something new. It requires letting go of what is safe (i.e. not falling) and trying something new. Following Christ is the same. It requires us letting go of what we know and embracing something new. Will we fall? Sure. But, just as a baby who learns to walk and then run learns to stay upright and get from one point to another faster, so to can the believer who is learning to live (i.e. walk) differently.
The term walk in Ephesians 4.1 is the same Greek word that is used of Jesus in Matthew 4.18. I do not think this choice of words is insignificant. Because it is as Jesus is walking that He says, “Follow Me.” In many senses, we cannot follow someone if they are not going anywhere.
So, Jesus asks His disciples to walk like Him. He did on that day by the Sea of Galilee. And He has every day since then. Therefore, the first thing we must notice is that we have a choice in how we will walk.
Will we walk like Jesus? Or will we walk like someone else?
Have you ever watched children mimic someone else? Most people find it cute. At some point the person being mimicked discovers they are being copied and sometimes it leads to embarrassment, while other times, they will further engage with the person mimicking.
But sometimes, a person asks to be mimicked. For instance, a craftsman may ask an apprentice to watch carefully in order to learn a skill that the apprentice will need to know.
The idea of an apprentice learning is essentially what Jesus was asking His disciples to do. Please note, the disciples were called, by Jesus. And thus, they needed to learn to walk in a manner worthy of their calling. Their job may have been as fishermen, tax collectors, etc., but their calling was something much more. And the only way for them to succeed in their calling was to follow the lead of the Master. They were to mimic Him.
Paul is using a similar idea in Ephesians. He wrote that this new church needed to walk in a manner worthy of the call that they have received. The call for the Ephesians may not have happened exactly as it did to the disciples on that day by the Sea of Galilee, but the effect was to be the same. Just as God (as Jesus) called the first disciples many years before in Israel, now He was calling this group to walk differently. In other words, the people may have believed in God, but now they truly needed follow Him.
And what was true for the Ephesians then, is true for us now as well. So, who needs to follow? All people who say they believe in Jesus.
Why is this becoming so difficult? Because many have never heard this before. For decades, the church was the culturally acceptable place to be, and many have thought, if I show up, then I have done what I need to do.
But again, Jesus said “Follow Me,” not, “Go to church.” Please understand, being a part of a local fellowship of believers (i.e, the church) is a part of God’s design (cf Matthew 16.18), but being a part of a church does not mean someone is following or is learning to walk properly. Following Jesus is not about a moment or even a week. It is about a lifetime.
Now, let me pause to clarify that I am not talking about following Jesus to get saved. I am talking about following Jesus because we are saved. Follow Me is certainly an invitation which might include salvation (it did include it for the original disciples), but the Ephesians were already called (that is, saved) and so their invitation was not for salvation, but to grow in their salvation. Paul wrote that the people were to walk according to the calling “to which you have been called.” Past tense. In other words, these people were already saved. They were already members of the eternal church, but they needed to act like it. They needed to walk like Jesus.
If we say we love Jesus, and want to serve Him, we must learn from Him. We must walk with Him. We must follow Him. As Jesus said, according to John 12.26, “If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me, and where I am, there will be my servant also. If anyone serves Me, the Father will honor Him.”
Again, we must follow Jesus. We must learn to walk like Him, to talk like Him, to live like Him. And that requires us taking the time to know Him better and see what He does. Like a young child watching a parent or an older sibling, we need to watch others who are more spiritually mature, so we can grow to be more like Jesus.
But here is the problem. Fewer people are walking like Jesus. Christianity has become more an idea of convenience. When I feel like going to church or talking to others or listening to a preacher, I will do it. They will be glad to see me. Ok, well maybe. But that sounds more like not living as worthy of the calling that Creator God, the God of the universe, the God who knows your name, has given. And this problem is only getting worse.
One of the directors within Child Evangelism Fellowship recently emailed a colleague saying that the worldview of many children who attend Bible clubs has shifted. Why? In the past, most people had some basic knowledge of God and some acquaintance with many different Bible stories. This basic knowledge provided a foundation for the teachers to build upon. But now, many children have little or no knowledge of spiritual things. (1).
How can children learn to walk well if they never see their parents walk? How can parents walk well if their parents quit walking? The reality is that if we are not learning to walk correctly because we are not following someone who knows what they are doing or where they are going, then we are wasting our time. Sure, we may fall down when we walk, especially as we are learning to walk, but that is where the encouragement of others is so important.
And we cannot leave it up to curriculum. It is people that must be followed. Curriculum can give us a path to follow, but it is people who guide us. So, Jesus said, “Follow Me.” That is a rather specific command, with far reaching implications. Follow Jesus where He is going. Follow His example. Essentially, learn the ways of Jesus.
And Paul says something similar. Make your life worthy of the call by learning to walk in the correct manner. In the simplest words, “Follow Jesus.”
But more and more people are walking away from Christ, at least in the United States. A few weeks ago, I shared that Christianity is growing. That is true from a global perspective. But in this country, we have had a 12% decline in the number of professing Christians over the past decade. And yet, 65% of people still identify as Christians.
If that number is true, then why do we have all of the problems that we do? Well, first, evil is real. Satan is real and is doing everything he can to disrupt God’s plan. He is working overtime. Some will say Satan is working harder than ever because the end is near. Maybe, maybe not. Jesus did not know when the end would come, so we cannot either. But we can perceive evil is more pervasive.
However, I think another real reason is that many of the 65% who say they are Christian do not know what it is like to walk worthy of their calling. I think Paul’s words to the Ephesians need to get a fresh perspective today. And that includes you. And that includes me. We can all walk better. We can all follow Jesus more closely, more intimately, more directly. But will we?
Again, this month’s system is the exocrine system, which is the system that includes the skin. The skin is what people see and thus, we can focus on behavior, as a part of this month of lessons. But having good behavior is like taking a bath or a shower, if it does not originate from within. Being clean on the outside may be important for hygiene and certainly our cleanliness will impact how others view us.
But from a Christian standpoint, what is more important is that we clean on the inside. As several people are noted as saying, Jesus did not come to make bad people good, He came to make dead people live.
And the way to live is to follow Jesus. Answering Jesus’ call to “Follow Me” means we are becoming more like Jesus and thus, how we live our lives begins to match the transformation that is taking place within us. As Jesus said, we will be known by our fruit (Mt 7.20).
Therefore, we must learn to walk worthy of the calling God has given to us. Church, if our building is spotless and people think well of us because we present ourselves as pure on the outside, but our insides are a wreck, we are doing God a disservice and, although we may be walking, we are not walking worthy of the calling He has placed on our lives.
On the other hand, if our insides healthy, but we do not show our true selves, then others will see us as disgusting, and they will never know the truth of who Jesus is because we are not showing them Jesus by who we are.
In both of those preceding paragraphs, I am not talking about how our skin looks or the amount of dirt or grime we have. I am talking about the fullness of our lives – both inside and out. Ultimately, as followers of Christ, we need to be clean on the outside, but that is only possible, if we allow Him to clean our insides first.
Our JOURNEY letter for today is: O – OBSERVE.
Really, this week is about Jesus. But to follow Him is to walk like Him, and thus, it is follow His commands. It is to observe what He has taught and to teach others to do the same. Those two ideas come straight from the mouth of Jesus. “If you love me, you will keep my commandments” (John 14.15). In other words, we will walk like Him. But then in the Great Commission, Jesus commanded His followers to teach others to do the same (Matthew 28.20).
So, we are to learn to walk like Jesus and help others to do the same.
PRINCIPLE: Just as a young child must learn to walk (well), so to do Christians.
QUESTION: How is your walk with Jesus? Would He call it worthy?
OPPORTUNITY: Jesus said, “Follow Me.” To follow Jesus is not about making a one-time decision, it is about counting the costs and following Him daily.
NEXT STEP(S): LIVE: Try to walk like Jesus. Just as a young child emulates patterns of others, we are to emulate the life of Jesus. This week, simply choose to take a few steps that you suspect Jesus would take, especially if you would rather not do so.
1) Personal email communication between L.P. and F.D., August 5, 2019).
2) https://www.pewforum.org/2019/10/17/in-u-s-decline-of-christianity-continues-at-rapid-pace/ (Accessed 11/8/19).